Problems, challenges, disputes, misunderstandings, misfortunes... do happen round the clock, round the world, round your neighborhood or round your family or round yourself....
It is best that one solve them within 36 hours or less. When our body or our mind or emotion is hurt or disturbed, we tend to dwell on the problems too long. Negatives left too long unattended will lead to health disasters...
A fire when small can be well in control, but once the fire gets wild and unattended, it will lead to even more serious disasters. At the same time, when a slight misfortune happen to a person, he or she should immediately find a way to solve it and put it aside.
Too many people made this mistake, to dwell on the problems too long, self-affirming oneself that he or she was terribly unlucky or emphasizing on the pain. Our brain or our mind listens to what we tell them. Though sometimes, complaining itself is just only a means to attract people's attention, some overdo it, thus exaggerating the problems and letting it purposely get out of control.
Thus, remembering this, when a mishap did happen, just analysis it, solve it, do away with it, even better to forget about the pain. It is never too wise to lament and spread gossips unnecessarily. Put things right and take it as an lesson to improve one's experience on that specific field.
Always remember, the sooner the problem is solved, the better one will be in full control of our life. The best medicine for hurt and pain is time.
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