Saturday, February 28, 2009

Teachers blame parents, parents blame the teachers and teachers blame their students... why?

Unfortunately, today, because the parents themselves have no purity of character, are lacking in spiritual qualities and do not lead regulated lives, evil practices and wickedness are springing up all over the world.

Due to some unexplainable reasons, parents tend to be quarrelsome and the children of today take after their parents. The tree is based on the seed and the seed determines the nature of the tree. For the evil ways and the bad behaviour of children today, the parents alone are to be blamed.

Few parents choose to tell their children how important it is to speak the truth, to act righteously and to earn a good name and, as a result, many children today are a disgrace to their parents and to their country.

For all the ills with which the nation is afflicted today, parents and teachers are responsible. Teachers do not punish the students for their lapses of behaviour, and because the students are not punished for their mistakes, they behave as they please.

Teachers are responsible for the sins of their students. They do not teach the students the right path. They transmit only book knowledge, and do not teach right knowledge, wise living and higher values. If there are no morals and no human values, then Man becomes a demon.

Parents are concerned solely about the material welfare of their children and have no concern for their spiritual well-being. It is not wealth that is important.

Character is primary. Parents do not teach their children the importance of cultivating good qualities. They do not try to control their children when they go astray; rather, they condone the lapses of their children and often encourage them in their bad ways.

It is because of such parents that many children today take to wrong courses of action. Parents today are afraid of correcting the mistakes of the children or of chastising them, but they have the right to warn and to correct their children.

To put right everything, all of us should instill moral values in us before one can teach or guide. There is no need to blame on whosoever, all of us have our own spiritual path to take, a journey no one else can replace or walk for us.

Remain good to plant good seeds. Goodness is to remain good even when someone else is not good to you. Convey patience, continue to be patient, be consistent to be patient and only then you can turn the tables...

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