In arguments, the insane one will always throw personal attack and say bad critics just to revenge and make his opponent angry! So, heed not, just stay COOL or 你中他计！哈哈

Most of the time, it is the 'insane' one who 
will be throwing critics and angering his opponent,
thus it is BEST to stay COOL... 

Anger will eat up our age, 
distort our smiling face...  

Mentally he is mad, 
so don't be mad oneself.  

Medically his body metabolism is at risk, 
surgically, his liver is affected...
 
Yes, mentally he is mad temporary...

So laugh back at his insanity that 
only he himself have to be responsible of... 
why live up to his expectations of what you actually is not?  
Why live up to his critics of which you actually is not?

If you think you are not who he think you are, 
why care and cry?
If you think you are not who he say you are, 
who care and why care?

If you think you did not do what he condemned you did, 
why care and take it into heart?
If you think you did not do what he exaggerated you did, 
who care and why care?

If he is sick, you are not, right?
If he is wrong, you are not wrong, right?
If he is angry, you are not angry, right?
If he is mad, you are not mad, right?


So, why participate to be like him?
He is sick, he is wrong, 
he is angered and 'mad'?
So, why join the debate?


If you join him, you are not 
how right you think you are...
If you join him, you are not 
how good you think you are...

So, just stay COOL and not ANGERED...

Heated arguments and abusive fights are negative effects in the family...

We are habitual 'animals', those harsh unreasonable critics used in arguments will soon be spicing our words while at work too...

Parents who angrily argue over small matters everyday will soon be a loser or a failure in their jobs...

THINK POSITIVE... Your life is your garden, your thoughts are the seeds. If your life isn't awesome, you've been watering the weeds...Terry Prince...

Positive arguments will end up putting things right, but negative arguments won't... If you think the argument brings more bad than good, DON'T EVER START IT...Rule No. 7

What is a fallacy? In logic and rhetoric, a fallacy is a misconception resulting from incorrect reasoning in argumentation. By accident or design, fallacies may exploit

Arguments only stop when we apply a FULL-STOP, not a COMMA... A full-stop comes only with sincere love...

Motivational arguments... think twice....

Argue? Attack? Destrutive or constructive? This is just an example...

Heated arguments will cause 'liver burntout'.... 怒伤肝

ARGUMENTS are for FOOLS....

There are books on this.....

Against longevity catergories... [e] common argumentative fallacies...

The best argument is NEVER TO START AN ARGUMENT! Relax and detox your mind.. forgive and forget....

Learn from 'baby fights' or 'sibling fights' .... Rule No. 6. FIGHT first HUG later, FIGHT first KISS later....

Sharing in arguments... solving arguments.... Rule No. 5. STICK TO ONE TOPIC AT A TIME..

De-clawing pointing fingers....

There are 2 theories for arguing with a woman, Neither one works...

Family arguments... Rule No 4... NEVER IN FRONT OF YOUNG KIDS...

Family arguments... Rule No. 3 ... FORGIVE AND FORGET those 'UNINTENTIONAL cruel angry remarks'....

Problemed people tend to argue more... mistakenly instilling negatives into the environments...Rule no. 2.. DON'T BITE...

In an argument, there must be one who can lead the argument, thus allowing a moderate, positive approach in solving things. Rule No. 1, DON'T TURN THE TURTLE...

It takes two to argue, make sure that the two are not INSANE... it sounds a death penalty....

It takes two to argue, thus make sure that one of them is SANE....

Multiple Intelligence is needed in arguments... Never heat up an argument too...

Post 301... If arguments are to reach a solution to a problem, go ahead... don't stop... Timing is important, don't make it too long...

Count our blessings, of which we have plenty... count these cherries, of which we have in abundance too...

Strong people are people who have the ability to face all odds, face life challenges bravely and not cry when in pain/sufferings...

Who are our great teachers? They plant seeds of knowledge that grow forever....

Heed this, a more successful person is more observant, thinks more and understands in depths...This is reality...

My dear friends, a more successful person is more observant, thinks more and
understands in depth. For the same matter, a more successful person sees
several years ahead, while we see only tomorrow. The difference between a
year and a day is 365 times.

Think! how far have you seen ahead in your life How thoughtful in depth are
you. This is reality...

The 3 laws of TQ...

[1] I can + You can = We can
[2] Leverage our work, less work, more benefits/advantages
[3] Stay in the team, grow with the team, reap with the team...

The 3 laws of MQ ...

[1] Do not do to others that you do not want others to do unto you

[2] See all others as your own brothers and sisters

[3] The name we call ourselves is "I", so we are the same 'I'

We see negatives, sadness, hopelessness when we feel that way inside us even when we are in front of beauty or true wealth itself...

We see beauty because we have beauty inside us...

What comes from one's mouth is a reflection of one's thoughts and heart... be careful how we use our words... say good words or say nothing!

Interdependence is an art in itself, the end products being peace and harmony...

Interdependence should be instilled at home among children, adults and parents-in-laws, relatives and neighbours...

Educare means education plus care... .

Educare emphasizes on character building, moral values, grapes of virtues, physical, mental, emotional and spiritual health...

Educare starts from our homes, their teachers are the parents and elders at home...

Trust....

Our learning attitude.... how much one can learn depends on which glass we choose....

Close your eyes, feel the love floating in the universe and be emerged in this universal love....Love is the solvent to dissolve even the hardest heart...

Here is a pie chart showing a principle-centered person written by Stephen Covey,,, have a closer look...

what are they?

- family

- money

- spouse

- work

- self

- possession
- friend
- pleasure
- social group
- enemy [let me change it to church]

A principle-centered person will live within the principles of life, follow the life compass instead of the clock and never an extremist himself.  We have to allocate time to attend to our different needs....

Thus, 
They won't call us a pervert..
They won't call us a miser...
They won't call us an extremist...
They won't call us an workaholic...
They won't call us a maniac...
They won't call us an introvert...
They won't call us a hermit...
They won't call us a loser..
They won't call us a glutton 
They won't call us a devil...
They won't call us other names...

We ought to be God-loving and God-fearing...

Here is another test... the more the figure is moving, the more stressed one is... check it out!

Here is a small test to how stressed a person is. if the diagram below seems to be moving, it means you are stressed. The more it moves, the more serious it is...

The 3 laws of AQ...

[1] Pass all tests with love and flying colors
[2] Learn from adversities for new breakthrough
[3] Gain strength from adversities 


No where, no place, no time is without adversities.  We face trials and temptations, we face different levels of tribulations, we face all sorts of difficulties and challenges of body, mind, emotion and spirit.  


What are adversities?  Adversities can come in the form of accidents, bankruptcy, death, separations, divorce, broken homes, lost of loved ones, poverty, handicaps, war, jilted, retrenchments, unemployment, serious illnesses, incurable cancer, poor health and many others...


We have to pass all those tests and trials with flying colors.  Anything happens, happen for the good.  Adversities mold our character making us fearless of further challenges and strengthen us.  Adversities make a better quality of us.  Adversities provoke further breakthrough that make history.