what are they?
- family
- money
- spouse
- work
- self
- possession
- friend
- pleasure
- social group
- enemy [let me change it to church]
A principle-centered person will live within the principles of life, follow the life compass instead of the clock and never an extremist himself. We have to allocate time to attend to our different needs....
Thus,
They won't call us a pervert..
They won't call us a miser...
They won't call us an extremist...
They won't call us an workaholic...
They won't call us a maniac...
They won't call us an introvert...
They won't call us a hermit...
They won't call us a loser..
They won't call us a glutton
They won't call us a devil...
They won't call us other names...
[1] Pass all tests with love and flying colors
[2] Learn from adversities for new breakthrough
[3] Gain strength from adversities
No where, no place, no time is without adversities. We face trials and temptations, we face different levels of tribulations, we face all sorts of difficulties and challenges of body, mind, emotion and spirit.
What are adversities? Adversities can come in the form of accidents, bankruptcy, death, separations, divorce, broken homes, lost of loved ones, poverty, handicaps, war, jilted, retrenchments, unemployment, serious illnesses, incurable cancer, poor health and many others...
We have to pass all those tests and trials with flying colors. Anything happens, happen for the good. Adversities mold our character making us fearless of further challenges and strengthen us. Adversities make a better quality of us. Adversities provoke further breakthrough that make history.
[1] maximize our 5 senses, only then our 6th sense will prevail...
[2] seek to learn, do and teach... practice makes perfect..., be patient and persistent...
[3] try to listen and tap skills, knowledge inside us, inherited from our parents and forefathers. They are all inside us!
What are our 5 senses? Eyesight, hearing, touching, smell, taste... I used to share with my children, maximize our 5 senses, only then we can be smarter than many others.
At the early stage, we learn, next coming to doing it and when we are able to teach, we have already master the skills...We are awarded and rewarded for what we have done, but only when we do the right work! No pain no gain, no work no pay...
How can we tap all those skills inherited? Yes, we can... Meditate, pray, relax, be connected with your inner self....subconscious mind, go inner and deeper than what we can see or feel..
[1] Be very slow to anger
[2] Be very very slow to revenge
[3] Be very very very slow to jump to conclusion
Powerful words include...
- I really love you so much
- I really care for you
- I am sorry
- Please forgive my mistakes
- I believe in you
- I am wrong
- I respect and need you
- I trust you
- You can do it
- We can do it
- Thank you
- You deserve the best