Love unites...

Yes, life is a journey of love not a competition.... Gen Y or Gen X or Gen Z is just part of life flfillled,,,,,

THE JOURNEY OF LOVE....is that journey one take a step a day to form the many steps .....creating the staircase thus achieving LOVE infinity....

Everything is reaction, resound and reflection of us in us....and the us in us is nothing but a piece of God manifested....what one is seeking is also seeking you... u

TQ - teamwork.. TEAMWORK MAKES DREAM WORK...Personal success can be done by self but huge success depends on teamwork..

TEAMWORK MAKES DREAM WORK......

AQ - adversity quoitient .... Pass all given tests and trails with colors... Life is always of EXPERIENCING WHAT LIFE IS....

Pass every tests... every trails and temptations....

Life is all about experiencing life.....all sweetness, sourness, bitterness... saltiness....

MQ - MORAL QUOTIENT and what we never want others to do unto us, never do to others.... applied at home to start with...

Moral....is that situation whereby  everybody can eat and sit together in peace of mind and heart..

DQ - development quotient.. today be better than yesterday and tomorrow be better than today.. There is always room for improvement...

There is always room for improvement.....Family togetherness is most sweet and meaningful.....
but remember that we have each of our roles and intentions co-existing in a family.

The only constant is CHANGE... and change it will be....  Things evolve.. things metamorphosis, things mutate...life improves,  knowingly or unknowingly.....linearly or exponentially... directly or indirectly... in seconds or in days or years or decades.thus changes there will be...becoming the NOW... The PAST is past...and the FUTURE..approaching.....and all these include you and me.. and everybody....

Everyday we are being renewed.... body, mind, emotion and spirit... 

 

  

CQ applied... creativity quotient... igniting ORIGINALITY..... Never scold creativity away... Never look down on creativity.. Never scorn new ideas or thoughts... Never suppress them too... They are our future engineers that is going to shape our planet Earth...

Our kids are the future engineers of planet earth, profound and passionate... They are here to shape our planet.. To make a quantum shift..they are catalysts to make complete the shift... It may change everything around, a newer paradigm, no longer pushing but just aligning and balancing the art of living.....

We got to stop push pull....and allow the incoming intuition of creativity which calls for originality..  Thus its time to stop holding on old energies... The magnificence of new energies is here to replace them......wisdom of tolerance and behavior...... Walls of stubbornness be replaced by encouragements instead...
 

EQ applied - leading by examples.. showing by examples...how good or influential can we as parents be?

EQ is emotion quotient where the most effective lies in compassion that is love in practice...  We fix things up instead of tearing it down and dismantling them. 

When our heart is soft, that's the best time to shape it....

Things are omplex but not complicated....One step forward, two steps backwards... Two steps forward, one step backwards..... three steps forward, one step backwards..only then one can start moving....just keep going....

Our kids are complex not complicated...Ours kids are lovingly ignorant yet sometimes innocent...  let's not complicate matters and demand from our views or intentions.  Respect and honour them just like any other human beings ..
 
IQ applied..

Understand that there are many types of kids around us..
- ordinary
- da vincci kids
- star seeds
- super kids
- the mutants
- the extraordinary ones

3 points we need to evaluate:
-  Bear in mind that we are their biological parents yet could be like wise.  At their tender age, we need to act, react and resound in depths of unconditional LOVE as expected of us.  Responsibilities and expectations of our duties as parents 24/7 days a week.

- Bear in mind too that our 19th or 20th century skills and knowledge might not be applicable for our 21st century kids.  They can't be easily fooled and they can easily pick up traits and ideas as forwarded or intended from near and far.

- Bear in mind that they inherited our ancestors, us [mother and father] of anything like skills, habits, knowledge and all.  Thus bravely to admit that these kids are much more intelligent than any one of us.

How can we expect them to listen or follow exactly as what we expected? 

There's no accidents that these kids become our kids... they come with visions and missions intended for that specific family...  Thus we learn to accept, adapt and change for the better and greater... and wiser in the process....

It;s not any expectations from  these kids, not any direct gains from them but in unison in a completion of something as anointed or appointed or as destined...

Just be in a state of gratitude and appreciation, only then silence can be broken and insights discovered as in the relationship between family members in the same house.

Momentary irritations is due to unclear picture of destiny and lack of communication.  Where is this spiritual realization and why putting ourselves in containers?  There are coming tools to reveal and make clear.and the wiser ones be seen more and a new paradigm aligning to living well than just surviving...

The intiution is now a flash of the past and our kids and their kids and kids will be the coming multidimensional futuristic new populace  ...

The many attributes will manifest quantum energies... inflationary energies and never linear... but exponential and in sync with every other living thin gs on planet earth....thus it's just the alignment of something meaningful and that's the real science of life.......

THE JOURNEY OF LOVE.........Going for a cool relationship between G Yen, Parents and their parents...

The above diagram refers to our different stages of life that is not exempted from anyone... It's what we call a journey of love whereby we directly and indirectly co-exist with our loved ones, families, relatives, friends and others.

At such, to make our life journey pleasurable and meaningful we need a great relationship between family members though seldom some might prefer to be a hermit.

To perfect a relationship is never easy.... it definitely needs skill and multiple quotients that includes !Q, EQ, CQ, DQ, MQ, AQ and TQ.

The 7 quotients of relationship applied makes our life journey easy and magical...

Intelligence quotient    IQ applied and acquired. 
Emotional quotient  EQ 
Creativity quotient
Development quotient
Moral quotient
Adversity quotient and 
Teamwork quotient

to be continued..
 


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