Monday, June 28, 2010

Here is another test... the more the figure is moving, the more stressed one is... check it out!

Here is a small test to how stressed a person is. if the diagram below seems to be moving, it means you are stressed. The more it moves, the more serious it is...

The 3 laws of AQ...




















[1] Pass all tests with love and flying colors
[2] Learn from adversities for new breakthrough
[3] Gain strength from adversities 


No where, no place, no time is without adversities.  We face trials and temptations, we face different levels of tribulations, we face all sorts of difficulties and challenges of body, mind, emotion and spirit.  


What are adversities?  Adversities can come in the form of accidents, bankruptcy, death, separations, divorce, broken homes, lost of loved ones, poverty, handicaps, war, jilted, retrenchments, unemployment, serious illnesses, incurable cancer, poor health and many others...


We have to pass all those tests and trials with flying colors.  Anything happens, happen for the good.  Adversities mold our character making us fearless of further challenges and strengthen us.  Adversities make a better quality of us.  Adversities provoke further breakthrough that make history.

Sunday, June 27, 2010

The 3 laws of IQ...




















[1] maximize our 5 senses, only then our 6th sense will prevail...
[2] seek to learn, do and teach... practice makes perfect..., be patient and persistent...
[3] try to listen and tap skills, knowledge inside us, inherited from our parents and forefathers.  They are all inside us!


What are our 5 senses? Eyesight, hearing, touching, smell, taste...  I used to share with my children, maximize our 5 senses, only then we can be smarter than many others.  


At the early stage, we learn, next coming to doing it and when we are able to teach, we have already master the skills...We are awarded and rewarded for what we have done, but only when we do the right work!  No pain no gain, no work no pay...  

How can we tap all those skills inherited?  Yes, we can...  Meditate, pray, relax, be connected with your inner self....subconscious mind, go inner and deeper than what we can see or feel..

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

The 3 laws of EQ...























[1] Be very slow to anger
[2] Be very very slow to revenge
[3] Be very very very slow to jump to conclusion

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

The power of words... it can heal or cut deep into our heart... be very careful of how we use our tongues...















Powerful words include...
- I really love you so much
- I really care for you 
- I am sorry
- Please forgive my mistakes
- I believe in you
- I am wrong
- I respect and need you
- I trust you
- You can do it
- We can do it
- Thank you
- You deserve the best

If it can pray for forgiveness and be sorry for what it had done, what about you?

We hold the choice to utilize our emotions to our fullest... apply the one that you think will best benefit the situation and never overdo it...

At times of bragging and nagging, at times of casual disputes,,,let's shut out our ears and pretend not to hear...

'Don't hate me for telling white lies..' It says.... It lies in the doer and the taker who believes it...

Hugging by examples, leading by examples... there are only white and black ties for pandas... no white lies...

Who is the greatest liar? Who talks more lies? REad why there are lies...

Hypocrites will brew up stories,they are insincere and deserve no pity...

Too many sorries, too many mistakes are unforgivable...

Insincere sorries make things worse... Sorries should be from our deepest heart and it should be genuine....

The game of sweet revenge.... you will be SORRY for what you have done....

I love you, Please forgive me, I am sorry, I am wrong... all these few phrases are so difficult for 'some' to utter... totally difficult to say..but never forget, these are those words that work marvels!




The word SORRY is a great healer... It must be said at the right moment, right place, right intonation, right attitude and to the right person...

No discriminations even amongst the animals....

All of us have to learn how to say SORRY so as to put things right and proper... Solving problems is more important than to leave the matter to wait....




Do you know WHY we need to say SORRY? When one really feel sorry for what he/she has done, a SORRY is needed TO STOP THE ARGUMENT/MISUNDERSTANDING...




Differences in saying sorry... it marks differences in attitudes..

Most relationships go stale because of poor communication. To say SORRY is the first step to solving all in all...

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Stretch our wings and fly high to attain our life goals....

Success

Write success....

Success is our destiny.... be success our goals...

Remember, we don't only just admire the colors, don't forget those fragrances, those uniqueness, those beauty in each flower kingdom...

But we do have choices to pick your favorite color of your roses....

Life is a bed of roses with hidden thorns... it pricks and bleeds you but the roses will heal them...

Accept the rose with thorns... accept life with challenges and zest...

Life is only colorful when we look at things positive and possible...

Today the greatest single source of WEALTH is between your ears....

Wealth is the ability to fully experience life...

Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.....

Where is there no wind blowing? How strong can one stand the strong cold wind?